And even though you are having a measure of success, you don't feelthe way you want to feel.
You think: Now what? Is this really all there is?
Am I going to have to work like this forever?
You feel frazzled from lack of balance.
Somewhere along the way, you've gotten stuck in overdrive.
You may think this is just how you are wired and that is how it has to be
for you to be "Successful." But I am here to tell you that most of what is
driving you that presents itself as ambition, practicality and the facts of
how to be successful is really, FEAR.
Fear is a tricky bastard and masquerades as many other emotions.
In order to have more satisfaction, meaning, and joy you must De-code your relationship to FEAR. To Get it All Done with more ease, grace, and fun you have to clearly understand what has been driving your decisions and your life up to this point.
It's time you take a step, just one, on the path that will lead you to True Freedom. Imagine feeling inspired into joyful action. Imagine taking daily steps towards your dreams NOT because you are checking tasks off your To Do list but because you are Lit Up and Feeling Unstoppable!
Wouldn't that be amazing? Well, it is totally possible. Trust me.
The Unhealthy Power of FEAR as FUEL...
She was exhausted. She was stressed and overwhelmed. She was addicted to caffeine, nicotine, and adrenaline. She was successful. She had a short fuse and was unhappy often. She worked nonstop, on both coasts. She traveled first class and rubbed elbows with celebrities. She was at the top of her game. Her bank balance increased as the hours she slept decreased. She got sick. She was done.
She was me.
This was my story so I know a thing or two about wanting it and having it BAD. I was successful but unhappy, exhausted and driven by fear.
I feared what would happen if I stopped. I feared losing my father's love and respect if I 'gave up' and changed careers, I feared becoming trapped in a relationship (like my mother) if I didn't continue to make my own money and so on.
If the foundation of your success is built on FEAR, like mine was then, not only will it not last, it will never FEEL right no matter how many frequent flyer miles you accrue or how much money you have in the bank.
I considered myself pretty fearless so it never entered my mind that I was being driven by fear, but I was.
It took years of therapy, a cancer diagnosis and being held up at gunpoint for me to uncover and get real about my relationship to fear. It wasn't until I was able to recognize and take control of the fear that had been driving me, that my life changed. I dove deep, soul searched and worked hard to, day by day, step by step, figure out how to make fear work for me to create a life of freedom, satisfaction and success.
I am happier than ever before and more successful! I want that for you too, let me show you how to get there.